Showing posts with label Heart and Love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Heart and Love. Show all posts
Pay more attention to the person who are close to you..~
We only have our life once..hihi..
**asek sebok ngn tepon je manjang..
kesian kat anak2,kawan2,buah hati pengarang jantung,jiran sebelah dll
abis semua tk dihiraukan..
Haishhhh~
You had told me once dat...
If you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it was, and always will be yours. If it never returns, it was never yours to begin with.
Ku Bukan Aku
Lama sungguh hari berlalu
Hening malam menyiksaku
Bila bersendirian sepi jadi pilu
Kau pergi aku yang hilang
Sedikit pun hidup tak senang
Langit cerah ku renung mendung kelabu
(korus)
Kerana diriku bukan aku
Tiap kali kau menjauh
Fikiran tak keruan
Jiwa rasa kekosongan
Diriku bukan aku
Tiap kali kau menjauh
Pulangkan dia ke pangkuanku
Yang digemar menjadi bosan
Sukarnya cari ketenteraman
Bila hati bersedih semuanya tak betul
Ku cuba setabah hati melupakan
Dirimu dari ingatan
Tapi semakin dicuba semakin rindu
"Sihatkah awk kat sane? Dah makan ke belum? Camne dengan kerja awk?"
Pesanan saya untuk awak:-
jalan tepi-tepi...
jangan...
nanti saya...
(^_^)
If you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it was, and always will be yours. If it never returns, it was never yours to begin with.
Ku Bukan Aku
Lama sungguh hari berlalu
Hening malam menyiksaku
Bila bersendirian sepi jadi pilu
Kau pergi aku yang hilang
Sedikit pun hidup tak senang
Langit cerah ku renung mendung kelabu
(korus)
Kerana diriku bukan aku
Tiap kali kau menjauh
Fikiran tak keruan
Jiwa rasa kekosongan
Diriku bukan aku
Tiap kali kau menjauh
Pulangkan dia ke pangkuanku
Yang digemar menjadi bosan
Sukarnya cari ketenteraman
Bila hati bersedih semuanya tak betul
Ku cuba setabah hati melupakan
Dirimu dari ingatan
Tapi semakin dicuba semakin rindu
"Sihatkah awk kat sane? Dah makan ke belum? Camne dengan kerja awk?"
Pesanan saya untuk awak:-
jalan tepi-tepi...
jangan...
nanti saya...
(^_^)
Once a lady when having a conversation with her lover, asked:
Lady : Why do you like me..? Why do you love me?
Man : I can't tell the reason.. but I really like you..
Lady : You can't even tell me the reason... how can you say you like
me? How can you say you love me?
Man : I really don't know the reason, but I can prove that I love U.
Lady : Proof? No! I want you to tell me the reason. My friends
boyfriend can tell her why he loves her but not you!
Man : Ok..ok!!! Erm... because you are beautiful,
because your voice is sweet,
because you are caring,
because you are loving,
because you are thoughtful,
because of your smile,
because of your every movements.
The lady felt very satisfied with the man s answer.
Unfortunately, a few days later, the Lady met with an accident and went
in comma.
The Guy then placed a letter by her side, and here is the content:
Darling,
Because of your sweet voice that I love you...
Now can you talk? No! Therefore I cannot love you.
Because of your care and concern that I like you..
Now that you cannot show them, therefore I cannot love you.
Because of your smile,
because of your every movements that I love you..
Now can you smile? Now can you move?
No, therefore I cannot love you...
If love needs a reason, like now,
There is no reason for me to love you anymore.
Does love need a reason? NO!
Therefore, I still love you...
Love me for a Reason...Let the Reason Be Love
Don't go for look, they can deceive.
Don't go for wealth,even that fades away.
Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.
Find the ones that makes your heart smile. " -white02
(Article in Malay Language)
Kamu telah terpikat kepada seseorang. Si dia benar-benar menepati citarasa kamu. Kamu pandai berjenaka dan mempunyai rupa paras yang menarik. Kamu tahu si dia adalah pasangan paling ideal untuk mu. Suatu hari, teman baik kamu telah memberitahu si dia bahawa kamu amat meminatinya. Rupanya kamu tidak bertepuk sebelah tangan. Bunga cinta pun berputik. Namun demikian, ini bukan masalahnya. Masalahnya ialah bagaimana kamu dapat memastikan perhubungan istimewa dengan si dia kekal indah dan mesra?
Memang benar kata orang bahawa jatuh cinta itu amat mudah sekali. Bagaimana pun, ada kalanya perhubungan istimewa juga boleh mendatangkan kekeliruan. Oleh itu, jatuh cinta memang mudah tapi perhubungan selepas itu adalah antara permasalah yang memeningkan. Percintaan tidak selalunya indah jika tiada kerjasama antara dua pihak: kamu dan si dia! Selain itu, perhubungan juga ada kalanya dilanda masalah yang tidak pernah kamu sangkakan.
Berikut adalah antara beberapa tips positif yang boleh kamu pratikkan agar percintaan kamu lebih indah dan menyeronokkan:
Jangan prasangka!
Jika si dia berada dalam keadaan marah, ini tidak bermakna si dia memarahi kamu. Dan, hanya kerana si dia tidak mengatakan "aku cinta padamu..." seratus kali dalam sehari, tidak bermakna si dia tidak mencintai mu.
Mungkin si dia mempunyai cara yang tersendiri untuk meluahkan kasih sayangnya padamu. Kadang kala cinta itu tidak perlu di luahkan melalui perkataan, perbuatan sudah cukup memadai untuk menerangkan betapa si dia mencintai kamu.
Mempunyai kehidupan
Walaupun kamu sudah mempunyai seorang teman istimewa, namun kamu juga perlukan kehidupan kamu sendiri. Mungkin kamu berasa menghabiskan 24 jam sehari bersama si dia menyeronokkan tapi cuba kamu fikir kembali sewaktu kamu masih solo. Kamu sering melakukan perkara-perkara yang kamu anggap menyeronokkan kamu tapi setelah kamu sudah berpunya, kamu tidak lagi melakukannya. Bercinta tidak semestinya kamu meninggalkan semua aktiviti yang menyeronokkan kamu dan kamu juga perlu ingat cinta tidak boleh mengenyangkan perut kamu!
Biarkan dia dan cara hidupnya
lngat, biarkan si dia lakukan apa yang dia suka. Jangan cuba mengongkongnya. Jika kamu cuba menjadi 'pengawal', kamu hanya mengundang masalah!
Cuba bersikap bertolak ansur dalam sesetengah perkara. Contohnya, jika si dia pergi ke satu konvoi motosikal tanpa mengajak kamu. Tentu kamu berkecil hati tapi jangan salahkan si dia kerana mungkin si dia berpendapat yang kamu pun kurang suka pergi ke acara seperti itu.
Begitu juga jika kamu pergi ke Lot 10 bersama teman-teman mu untuk membeli kasut. Dan, pada mu, si dia tentu tidak suka menghabiskan masa bersama perempuan di gedung membeli belah. Jadi buat apa ajak si dia. Tentu perasaan kamu dan si dia sebelum ini adalah sama. Yang penting ialah bertolak ansur antara satu sama lain. Jangan hanya disebabkan perkara remeh temeh, kamu marah padanya.
Jangan bandingkan dia dengan orang lain
Secara peribadi, setiap pasangan mahukan satu perhubungan yang harmoni dan sentiasa berfikiran terbuka di antara satu sama lain.
Jangan membandingkan si dia dengan bekas teman lelakimu atau teman lelaki orang lain. Kamu terpaksa menerima apa jua keadaan terhadap teman lelakimu seadanya.
Setiap lelaki tidak suka dia dibanding-bandingkan dengan orang lain. Cuba kamu fikirkan jika ia berlaku ke atas diri kamu? Teman lelakimu suka membanding-bandingk an kamu dengan bekas teman wanitanya atau wanita-wanita yang lain. Apa perasaanmu pada ketika itu? Tentu kamu tidak menyenangi perbuatan teman lelakimu itu bukan? Jadi untuk menjamin perhubungan yang kekal dan harmoni jangan cuba membandingkan si dia dengan orang lain.
Jadi diri kamu
Fikirkan apa yang terbaik untuk diri kamu. Jangan paksa diri kamu menvukai apa yang disukai oleh si dia suka hanya kerana kamu mahu mengambil hatinya. Contohnya, si dia menyukai permainan bola keranjang, kamu tidak perlu memakai kemeja T yang mempunyai gambar Michael Jordan semata-mata ingin menunjukkan kepada si dia bahawa kamu jua suka akan permainan bola keranjang.
Jangan cepat terpengaruh dengan kehendak pasangan mu. Mungkin si dia tidak bermaksud sedemikian, tetapi di atas rasa hati kamu yang keras mahukan si dia bangga terhadap diri kamu. Bahaya!
Jika kamu berbuat demikian, ia bermakna kamu menipu diri sendiri dan tidak jujur di dalam perhubungan. Setiap perhubungan memerlukan kejujuran. Apa pendapat pasangan mu itu jika si dia mengetahui bahawa selama ini kamu hanya berpura-pura menyukai apa yang si dia suka. Tentu hati si dia tersinggung di atas sikap kamu yang tidak jujur dalam perhubungan. la bukan sahaja menyusah" kan kamu, malah kemungkinan kamu dan si dia tidak dapat menikmati erti percintaan yang sebenar.
Jangan cuba ubah si dia
Apa perasaan kamu jika si dia mahukan kamu berubah dan mengikut citarasanya? Begitu juga si dia, jangan sekali-kali kamu cuba mengubah kehendaknya agar sama dengan kehendakmu. Biarkan dia dengan caranya dan kamu dengan caramu. Cuba bersikap jujur dalam perhubungan. Contohnya, jika pasangan mu itu suka mendengar muzik rap, tetapi kamu tidak suka akan muzik tersebut. Oleh itu, jangan kamu cuba melarang si dia mendengar muzik rap. lni kerana masing-masing ada hak
dan minatnya tersendiri. Mungkin si dia menyukai muzik rap sebelum si dia mengenali kamu. la sudah sebati dengan hidupnya, masakan kamu dapat mengubahnya.
Berpijak di bumi yang nyata
Janganlah mudah kamu terperanjat dan melatah apabila kamu dapati teman istimewa itu ada melakukan perkara-perkara yang tidak masuk akal dan 'gila'. la bukan bermaksud si dia tidak berfikiran waras.
Ada kalanya manusia mudah terlupa. Kamu harus memahaminya. Contohnya, kamu mendapat tahu teman istimewa mu akan menyertai satu pertandingan badminton di hujung bulan dan kamu pun beriya-iya sanggup berjalan jauh semata-mata mahu memberi sokongan padanya. Tetapi hampanya, apabila kamu tiba ke Kuala Lumpur dan dapati pertandingan itu sudah dibatalkan. Rupa-rupanya si dia terlupa untuk memberitahu kamu. Namun demikian, kamu tidak perlu mengamuk hanya disebabkan perkara ini. Cubalah bersikap tenang dan memahami keadaan sebenar si dia menggapa dia boleh terlupa.
Luahkan pendapatmu
Masalah komunikasi adalah masalah besar yang sering melanda setiap perhubungan. Tanpa komunikasi yang baik, perhubungan tidak akan ke mana. Jadi setiap pasangan itu haruslah bersikap terbuka dan jangan memendam perasaan iri hati dan dengki.
Contohnya, jika kamu tidak suka si dia melakukan perkara yang kamu tidak suka, cuba berbincang dengannya. Jangan pula kamu memendam rasa benci hanya kerana mementingkan diri sendiri.
Bagaimana pun, jangan sesekali kamu berkomunikasi secara negatif dengannya. Contohnya, jangan kamu gunakan perkataan-perkataan yang keterlaluan terhadap pasangan mu.
"heee3x!~
Yang mana baik bolehlah dijadikan tauladan,
dan yang buruk tu jadikan lah sempadan ye..
RENUNG-RENUNGKAN.."
From me,always be transparent to u spouse..
ermm must have a good communication btwn both of u..
and pleaseeee find a solution to solve any troublesome if happen
Sumber: Internet
People say that "In the arithmetic of love, one plus one equals everything, and two minus one equals nothing. "
I'm agree wth this statement..
Erghhhhh diz is what i feel towards u darl~
But please don't laugh key when i'm telling u diz whole thing..(Sengih cam kerAng busuk pon tk bulehh eh - JANJI TAU!!!)
hURmm.."Bismillahhirahmanirrahim"..
To be honest with you, I don't have a strength to stay away from you anymore dear. Please let me be another part of your sholder - so i can always be with you.
A gud fren of mine once have said that:
Life is like a box of chocolate, you never know what you gonna get!~(betul kan?!~)
But planning and choosing is certainly in that Book! Our later fate is normally determined by what we choose now, today. For the better tomorrow. C;)
Your existence are very special to me. There's nothing i wish for except to have a long happy life with you. And if all the world was smiling, i would only ever want to see your frown. Because i was unconditionally fallin love with you.
(Article in Malays)
Jika kebahagiaan sidia bermakna kita terpaksa melepaskan sidia maka biarkanlah itu terjadi. Kerana melihat kebahagiaan orang yang dicintai dari jauh lebih baik daripada kita berada dekat disisinya tetapi tidak memiliki cintanya.
Cintailah dia seadanya. Terimalah kekurangan dan kelebihannya dengan seikhlas hati, malah usahlah diungkit masa lalunya yang gelap itu. Jika benar kamu cinta, jadikanlah cintamu sebagai cahaya yang boleh menolak sejarah hitam hidupnya jauh meninggalkan dirinya.Cinta itu buta. Buta harta, buta nama, buta segala-galanya. Bila kita cinta hanya keindahan dan kemuliaan yang kita nampak ada pada si dia.
Pengalaman cinta lalu yang telah jauh kita tinggalkan sesekali lihatlah semula dan nilaikan kembali. Kerana sesungguhnya pengalaman cinta lalu umpama sebuah ensiklopedia yang sangat berharga kepada diri kita. Yang pahit jadikan pengajaran, yang manis pastikan kita sentiasa mengamalkannya dalam setiap episod cinta kita di masa hadapan.
Bila cinta beraja di hati kita sanggup berkorban segalanya demi kerana CINTA. Maka maruah dan harga diri digadaikan sebagai jaminan kepada kelangsungan sebuah hubungan. Diketika itu berakhirlah satu ikatan cinta nan suci anugerah Illahi dibayangi oleh satu hubungan baru yang diwarnai dengan noda-noda dosa yang keji dan penuh dengan kepuraan semata-mata.
Biarlah kita menjadi cinta terakhir kepada seseorang kerana mungkin kita sudah terlambat untuk menjadi cinta pertamanya tetapi kita tidak akan pernah terlambat untuk menjadi cinta terakhirnya.
CINTA adalah ibarat air. Kita sangat memerlukannya di dalam hidup namun jika ia ibarat air di lautan ia akan menjadi ombak yang akan mengumbang-ambingkan hidup kita, jika ia ibarat air di kutub utara-selatan maka ia akan menjadi ketulan ais yang membekukan kita, jika ia ibarat air sungai yang mengalir tenang maka ia akan berterusan menghanyutkan kita ke muara, jika ia ibarat air terjun maka akan terhempaslah kita berulang-ulang ke bawah, jika ia ibarat air tasik yang tenang membiru maka kita dalam diam akan menyimpan berjuta keladak di dasarnya.
Maka jenis air manakah yang kita inginkan. Carilah mata air yang suci lagi murni walaupun keluar sedikit demi sedikit tetapi akan melimpahi perigi dan menghilangkan kehausan kita dengan sekali teguk sahaja. Bibir manusia terlalu mudah melafazkan cinta tapi dapatkah hatinya setia pada kita?
Manusia tidak dapat lari dari bercinta kerana kehadiran cinta itu lazimnya tanpa diundang dan tanpa diharap. Hanya insan itu sahajalah yang dapat menilaikan adakah dirinya sudah bersedia menerima cinta itu atau tidak.
Cintai jangan sesekali dihampiri jika tidak sanggup menanggung risikonya. Cinta sememangnya indah kerana kita hidup dalam khayalan. Cinta sememangnya unik kerana kita asyik diulit mimpi yang indah-indah belaka. Apabila perpisahan mendatang barulah kita tersentak dari lamunan. Kemudian kita akan sedari cinta hanyalah permainan nafsu yang membawa kesengsaraan dan penderitaan yang amat menyeksakan.
Meskipun kesalahan atau kesilapan itu boleh dimaafkan tetapi janganlah berbicara sampai menyakiti dan menyinggung hati orang lain kerana kemaafan itu bukanlah pengubat hati yang terluka kerana hati yang terluka itu tetap akan terluka. Biarlah kita menguasai cinta, jika gagal bererti kita masih berupaya melawan perasaan kecewa sekalipun teramat pedih, luka dan sengsara.
P/s:
Ya Allah Ya Rahman Ya Rahim...
Hambamu ini berharapkan kebahagiaan yang kekal abadi bersama cinta hatiku (Insyaallah, jika diizinkanNYA)
Kekalkan rasa cinta dan perasaan kasih sayang kami..(kerana ianya teramat indah buat diriku)
Sesungguhnya hambamu ini terlalu jauh menyintai dirinya..
AMIN
***white sayang sangat kat Mumu***
To those who are married,.. Not married .. and soon to be married MARRIAGE
...A story to share..
When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.
Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce.. I raised the topic calmly.
She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?
I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Dew. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!
With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.
She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Dew so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.
The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Dew.
When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.
In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce.
She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.
This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.
She requested that everyday for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.
I told Dew about my wife's divorce conditions... . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully..
My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.
On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time.. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.
On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.
On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Dew about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.
She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.
Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.
Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mum out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally.. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.
But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy.
I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind... I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I do not want the divorce anymore.
She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other any more. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart.
Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.
At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card.. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.
That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead.
The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!
Yes,i'll stand by you forever..
...A story to share..
When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.
Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce.. I raised the topic calmly.
She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?
I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Dew. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!
With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.
She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Dew so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.
The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Dew.
When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.
In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce.
She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.
This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.
She requested that everyday for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.
I told Dew about my wife's divorce conditions... . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully..
My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.
On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time.. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.
On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.
On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Dew about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.
She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.
Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.
Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mum out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally.. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.
But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy.
I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind... I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I do not want the divorce anymore.
She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other any more. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart.
Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.
At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card.. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.
That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead.
The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!
Yes,i'll stand by you forever..
Tulang Rusukku....
WANITA: Siapa yang paling kamu cintai di dunia ini?
LELAKI: Kamu!!!
WANITA: Menurut kamu, saya ini siapa?
LELAKI: (Berfikir sejenak, lalu menatap WANITA dengan pasti).
Kamu, tulang rusukku!
Kerana Allah melihat bahawa Adam kesepian. Saat Adam sedang lena tidur, Allah mengambil rusuk Adam dan menciptakan Hawa. Semua LELAKI mencari tulang rusuknya yang hilang dan saat menemukan wanita untuknya, tidak lagi merasakan sakit di hatinya…
Setelah berkahwin, pasangan itu mengalami masa yang indah dan manis untuk sementara. Setelah itu, pasangan muda ini mulai tenggelam dalam kesibukan masing-masing dan kelelahan hidup yang ada. Hidup mereka menjadi membosankan.
Kenyataan hidup yang kejam membuat mereka mulai menyisihkan impian dan cinta satu sama lain. Mereka mulai bertengkar dan pertengkaran itu mulai menjadi semakin panas. Pada suatu hari pada akhir sebuah pertengkaran WANITA lari keluar rumah.
Saat tiba di seberang jalan, dia berteriak “Kamu tidak cintakan saya lagi!!!”. LELAKI sangat membenci ketidakdewasaan WANITA dan secara spontan juga berteriak “Saya menyesali perkahwinan ini! Kamu ternyata bukan tulang rusukku!!!”
Tiba-tiba WANITA terdiam, dan berdiri kaku untuk beberapa saat. LELAKI menyesali akan apa yang sudah dia lafazkan, tetapi seperti air yang telah tertumpah tidak mungkin untuk diceduk kembali. Dengan berlinang air mata, WANITA kembali ke rumah dan mengambil barang-barangnya, bertekad untuk berpisah.
“Kalau saya bukan tulang rusukmu, biarkan saya pergi. Biarkan kita
berpisah dan mencari pasangan sejati masing-masing” .
Lima tahun berlalu. LELAKI masih belum lagi berkahwin, tetapi berusaha mencari khabar akan kehidupan WANITA. WANITA pernah ke luar negeri tetapi sudah kembali. Dia pernah berkahwin dengan seorang asing dan bercerai.
LELAKI agak kecewa bila mengetahui WANITA tidak menunggu, sepertinya.
Dan di tengah malam yang sunyi, dia meminum kopinya dan merasakan sakit di hatinya. Tetapi LELAKI tidak sanggup mengakui bahawa dia merindukan WANITA.
Suatu hari, mereka akhirnya bertemu kembali. Di airport, tempat di mana banyak terjadi pertemuan dan perpisahan, mereka dipisahkan hanya oleh sebuah dinding pembatas.
LELAKI: Apa khabar?
WANITA: Baik… kamu sudah menemui tulang rusukmu yang hilang?
LELAKI: Belum.
WANITA: Saya akan terbang ke New York dengan penerbangan berikut. Saya akan kembali 2 minggu lagi. Telefon saya kalau kamu berkesempatan. Kamu tahu nombor telepon saya kan? Tidak ada yang berubah.
WANITA tersenyum manis, berlalu di hujung lafaz “Selamat tinggal…”
Satu minggu kemudian, LELAKI menerima khabar WANITA adalah salah seorang korban Menara WTC. Malam itu, sekali lagi, LELAKI meneguk kopinya dan kembali merasakan sakit dihatinya. Akhirnya dia sedar bahawa sakit itu adalah kerana WANITA, tulang rusuknya sendiri yang telah dengan bodohnya dia patahkan sendiri…
P/S:
Sejauh mana pilihan yang kita buat. Pastikan kita tidak akan menyesal kemudian hari. Nilaikan sedalam yang mungkin baik dan buruk pasangan kita. Andai hati kita tetap mengatakan "Dialah pilihanku", berdoa pada yang Esa agar segalanye terdorong ke arah jalan yang diredhainya. -love my mumu~
WANITA: Siapa yang paling kamu cintai di dunia ini?
LELAKI: Kamu!!!
WANITA: Menurut kamu, saya ini siapa?
LELAKI: (Berfikir sejenak, lalu menatap WANITA dengan pasti).
Kamu, tulang rusukku!
Kerana Allah melihat bahawa Adam kesepian. Saat Adam sedang lena tidur, Allah mengambil rusuk Adam dan menciptakan Hawa. Semua LELAKI mencari tulang rusuknya yang hilang dan saat menemukan wanita untuknya, tidak lagi merasakan sakit di hatinya…
Setelah berkahwin, pasangan itu mengalami masa yang indah dan manis untuk sementara. Setelah itu, pasangan muda ini mulai tenggelam dalam kesibukan masing-masing dan kelelahan hidup yang ada. Hidup mereka menjadi membosankan.
Kenyataan hidup yang kejam membuat mereka mulai menyisihkan impian dan cinta satu sama lain. Mereka mulai bertengkar dan pertengkaran itu mulai menjadi semakin panas. Pada suatu hari pada akhir sebuah pertengkaran WANITA lari keluar rumah.
Saat tiba di seberang jalan, dia berteriak “Kamu tidak cintakan saya lagi!!!”. LELAKI sangat membenci ketidakdewasaan WANITA dan secara spontan juga berteriak “Saya menyesali perkahwinan ini! Kamu ternyata bukan tulang rusukku!!!”
Tiba-tiba WANITA terdiam, dan berdiri kaku untuk beberapa saat. LELAKI menyesali akan apa yang sudah dia lafazkan, tetapi seperti air yang telah tertumpah tidak mungkin untuk diceduk kembali. Dengan berlinang air mata, WANITA kembali ke rumah dan mengambil barang-barangnya, bertekad untuk berpisah.
“Kalau saya bukan tulang rusukmu, biarkan saya pergi. Biarkan kita
berpisah dan mencari pasangan sejati masing-masing” .
Lima tahun berlalu. LELAKI masih belum lagi berkahwin, tetapi berusaha mencari khabar akan kehidupan WANITA. WANITA pernah ke luar negeri tetapi sudah kembali. Dia pernah berkahwin dengan seorang asing dan bercerai.
LELAKI agak kecewa bila mengetahui WANITA tidak menunggu, sepertinya.
Dan di tengah malam yang sunyi, dia meminum kopinya dan merasakan sakit di hatinya. Tetapi LELAKI tidak sanggup mengakui bahawa dia merindukan WANITA.
Suatu hari, mereka akhirnya bertemu kembali. Di airport, tempat di mana banyak terjadi pertemuan dan perpisahan, mereka dipisahkan hanya oleh sebuah dinding pembatas.
LELAKI: Apa khabar?
WANITA: Baik… kamu sudah menemui tulang rusukmu yang hilang?
LELAKI: Belum.
WANITA: Saya akan terbang ke New York dengan penerbangan berikut. Saya akan kembali 2 minggu lagi. Telefon saya kalau kamu berkesempatan. Kamu tahu nombor telepon saya kan? Tidak ada yang berubah.
WANITA tersenyum manis, berlalu di hujung lafaz “Selamat tinggal…”
Satu minggu kemudian, LELAKI menerima khabar WANITA adalah salah seorang korban Menara WTC. Malam itu, sekali lagi, LELAKI meneguk kopinya dan kembali merasakan sakit dihatinya. Akhirnya dia sedar bahawa sakit itu adalah kerana WANITA, tulang rusuknya sendiri yang telah dengan bodohnya dia patahkan sendiri…
P/S:
Sejauh mana pilihan yang kita buat. Pastikan kita tidak akan menyesal kemudian hari. Nilaikan sedalam yang mungkin baik dan buruk pasangan kita. Andai hati kita tetap mengatakan "Dialah pilihanku", berdoa pada yang Esa agar segalanye terdorong ke arah jalan yang diredhainya. -love my mumu~
Every day i wake up..The first thing i thought is you. How it could be so nice when i can spend my whole day with you darl. In the office, i looked at the screen it's your face appear again together with my "massive" workload..
(heee3x!~ tkde muke lain ke..nih daa angauu neh mumu)
Hurmmm since i'm not going out for lunch today, i want to write something to my mumu..
Everytime a smile on my face
Indicates your presence near me
Coz u always try to make me smile
Eventhough sometime i’m a bit childish
You still treat me nice and patiently
A smile is what comes naturally from u.
(I’m truly sorry if u had headache because of me.)
The moment I c u or think about u
And also I cant help crying
When I am not with u..
My life is so beautiful
When we are together
Every second spent with u is precious
Life is so short and so many things to do
We don't know abt tomorrow..
All i want is......
I wanna spend every single day with you
And live happily to fullest today
Tomorrow may not just come at all
I don't want to have a regret in anyway
All i want is YOU.
(Look at my lips dear...YOU...)
You had complete my life mumu!~
Song for you...
(heee3x!~ tkde muke lain ke..nih daa angauu neh mumu)
Hurmmm since i'm not going out for lunch today, i want to write something to my mumu..
Everytime a smile on my face
Indicates your presence near me
Coz u always try to make me smile
Eventhough sometime i’m a bit childish
You still treat me nice and patiently
A smile is what comes naturally from u.
(I’m truly sorry if u had headache because of me.)
The moment I c u or think about u
And also I cant help crying
When I am not with u..
My life is so beautiful
When we are together
Every second spent with u is precious
Life is so short and so many things to do
We don't know abt tomorrow..
All i want is......
I wanna spend every single day with you
And live happily to fullest today
Tomorrow may not just come at all
I don't want to have a regret in anyway
All i want is YOU.
(Look at my lips dear...YOU...)
You had complete my life mumu!~
Song for you...
True Love is so special,
Yet can make you feel quite lost,
It can be there one minute,
then gone like the morning frost.
Yet can make you feel quite lost,
It can be there one minute,
then gone like the morning frost.
Always find ways to nurture it,
and grow your love with care,
Never take for granted,
The love that you both share.
You will still have disagreements,
and hurt each other's heart,
but with a little give and take,
you'll never be apart.
Talk openly about your feelings,
find time to show you care,
Treasure every minute of each day,
Because to find true love is rare.
p/s: Yeapp dats true talk openly to your partner.
I’m so lucky to have u by my side..u are the precious that i always want to keep. Owhhh dear i miss you so much.
If you were the moon,
And I was the sun,
We'd be an eclipse,
And I was the sun,
We'd be an eclipse,
Together as one...
Words can't explain,
How I feel about you,
So I'll just say "I love you",
And hope you love me, too..
So if we're close together,
Or far apart,
I'll never forget,
How you touched my heart..
Owhh dear i missed you so much mumu..
I want to be with u for every second..
I can't hold this moment without you here..
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